Course 05 · Filled, formed and used by the Spirit

Life in the Spirit

The Holy Spirit is not a strange addition to Christian life. He is God present with his people—making Jesus real to us, forming his character in us and giving gifts through which we can serve others. These twelve lessons invite you to receive, listen, practise, test and obey.

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There is more to receive

Thirst for life in the Spirit

Big idea: Christian life cannot be lived in our own strength. The Father gives the Holy Spirit so that we may know Christ, become like him and make him known in the world.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: You were very young when a few words changed the direction of your life.

Erling: Yes. Per stood in the youth meeting with joy in his eyes and fire in his words. I knew that he had found something I longed for.

Solveig: The discussion afterwards did not quench that longing?

Erling: No. What impressed me most was his attitude, his simple faith in God’s word and the life I could see in him.

Solveig: And after a lifetime of ministry, you still believe there is more?

Erling: More than ever. The Spirit is not a memory from one meeting. He is God’s presence and life in us every day.

Read

John 7:37–39 · John 14:15–23 · Acts 1:4–8 · Romans 8:1–17 · Ephesians 2:18–22

A longing was awakened

Per was a happy young man who burned for Jesus. One evening he stood at the front of a youth meeting in the Ebeneser prayer house at Ganddal, where I grew up. His eyes shone, and there was joy and power in the way he spoke. He told a story from the Old Testament and brought it to a simple conclusion: “God has more to give. There is more to receive.” Those words entered my heart. I could see that Per possessed something I did not have, and I wanted to share in it.

Not everybody responded as I did. After the meeting, a vigorous discussion broke out among the young people. I was too young to take much part in it, but I watched Per. His answers, his attitude and his uncomplicated confidence in the Bible made a deeper impression on me than the controversy. He spoke about being baptised in the Holy Spirit, speaking in tongues and living a Spirit-filled life. A longing was kindled in me, and I began to seek God and search the Scriptures.

After some time, I found the courage to travel to a meeting in Stavanger. A Swedish-American preacher told us about young men and women who were being filled with the Holy Spirit. They spoke in tongues, prayed for the sick and helped their friends come to Jesus. This was completely new to me. None of my Christian friends prayed for sick people expecting them to be healed, and none spoke in tongues. They did not seem to long for these things either. But I did. The more I prayed and read the Bible, the thirstier I became for more of God.

Then a servant of the Lord laid hands on me and prayed. I was filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in tongues. In the years that followed, I laid hands on sick people and saw many healed. I tasted something of a Spirit-filled life. Yet this did not leave me feeling that I had arrived. It made me more aware of my dependence on God. After more than sixty years of serving the Lord, I am still thirsty. I remain convinced that Christian life can only be lived in the Holy Spirit, never by human strength and determination alone.

Not a religious extra

For some Christians, the Holy Spirit appears to be an advanced subject for especially interested believers. For others, speaking about the Spirit is connected with strange behaviour, emotional pressure or painful experiences. But in the New Testament, life in the Spirit is simply normal Christian life. Jesus did not expect his disciples to manage by trying harder after he had left them. He promised another Helper who would be with them and live in them. Before sending them into the world, he told them to wait for the Father’s promise and receive power from on high.

The Holy Spirit is not a force we learn to control, an atmosphere in a meeting or a power we use to make ourselves important. He is the holy and personal Spirit of God—the Spirit of the Father and the Son. Through Christ, we have access to the Father in one Spirit. He makes the presence of Jesus real to us, opens the Scriptures, pours God’s love into our hearts, assures us that we are God’s children and enables us to cry, “Abba, Father.” Life in the Spirit is life in fellowship with the triune God.

This fellowship is deeply practical. The Spirit reminds us of Jesus’ words and enables loving obedience. He changes what we desire, teaches us to pray, produces the character of Jesus and gives gifts through which we serve others. He gives courage to witness, strength in opposition, wisdom for ordinary decisions and compassion for those who suffer. His purpose is not to make us appear spiritual, but to form a people whose lives show what the Father is like and whose words and actions make Jesus known.

Thirst is an invitation

Jesus invited everyone who was thirsty to come to him and drink, speaking about the Spirit whom believers would receive. Spiritual thirst begins when we recognise that we do not have enough in ourselves. We may know Christian teaching, attend meetings and work faithfully, yet realise that our hearts are dry and our service has become human effort. That recognition is not failure. It can become God’s invitation to come closer.

Thirst must be directed towards Jesus. We are not seeking unusual experiences for their own sake or trying to copy another person’s story. My experience in Stavanger was precious, but the centre of the story is Jesus, the one who baptises in the Holy Spirit. The Father is good and does not deceive his children when they ask. We may come honestly, surrender ourselves and receive in faith without forcing a feeling or pretending that something has happened.

People encounter the Spirit in different ways. Some can point to a powerful moment; others become aware of his work gradually. No particular emotion makes one believer more valuable than another. The trustworthy signs of the Spirit’s work are that Jesus is honoured, love grows, people are built up, the good news is shared and God’s kingdom becomes visible in daily life.

A people who practise

This course is not meant merely to give information about spiritual gifts. Scripture says that our spiritual senses are trained through practice. We learn to recognise God’s voice by listening, obeying and allowing what we think we hear to be tested. We learn to serve by taking humble steps in a safe community. We also learn to distinguish the work of the Spirit from our own enthusiasm, desires and opinions. Openness and discernment belong together.

Begin, then, not by asking which impressive gift you can have, but by coming to Jesus. Ask him to reveal the Father, fill you with love and make you available to bless others. Bring him your weariness, fear and limitations. The confession that we need the Spirit is not weakness; it is the doorway into the life God intended. There is more to receive—not so that we become more important, but so that Jesus becomes more visible through us.

Reflect

  1. What do you notice most in Erling’s story: the experience, the thirst that preceded it, or the dependence that followed?
  2. Where are you presently trying to live or serve in your own strength?
  3. What would “more of God” mean if its purpose were to make Jesus more visible through you?

Together

Tell one another how you first became aware of the Holy Spirit. Do not compare experiences. Listen for what each story reveals about Jesus and the Father’s faithfulness. End by praying for fresh thirst and deeper dependence.

Live it out

For seven mornings pray: “Father, thank you for the gift of your Spirit. Holy Spirit, make Jesus real to me, form his character in me and lead me to bless someone today.” Each evening note one moment when you became aware of his help or your need.

Ask about life in the Spirit ↗
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Gift and continuing command

Be baptised and continually filled

Big idea: Jesus baptises believers in the Holy Spirit, and Scripture calls us to keep being filled—receiving God’s gift in faith and yielding every part of life to him.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: Some people are afraid because their experience does not resemble someone else’s.

Erling: We must not manufacture a reaction. We look to Jesus, the giver, and receive with simple faith.

Solveig: And being filled is both a beginning and a way of life?

Erling: Yes. One baptism, many fresh fillings.

Read

Luke 11:9–13 · John 7:37–39 · Acts 2:1–18, 38–39 · Acts 8:14–17 · Ephesians 5:15–21

At Pentecost the promised Spirit filled the gathered disciples and sent them into public witness. Peter said that the promise was for his hearers, their children and all whom God would call. Acts shows varied encounters: prayer, laying on of hands, praise, bold speech and tongues. These accounts teach expectancy without making one outward sign a measure of another person’s worth or faith.

Paul’s command to “be filled with the Spirit” describes a continuing life. The result includes worship, gratitude, mutual submission and wise conduct. We receive by turning from sin, asking, trusting and surrendering our voice, body, plans and relationships to God. When praying with others, explain what you are doing, ask permission, avoid pressure and leave the outcome with God.

The promise of the Father

John the Baptist introduced Jesus as the one who would baptise in the Holy Spirit. After his resurrection, Jesus returned to this promise. The disciples had heard his teaching, seen his miracles and met him alive from the dead, yet he told them not to begin their worldwide mission until they had received power from on high. Knowledge, sincere devotion and good intentions were not enough. They needed God himself to equip them for the work God had given them.

At Pentecost the Spirit did not come only upon apostles or unusually mature believers. Sons and daughters, young and old, servants of both sexes were included in Joel’s promise. Peter then widened the invitation to his hearers, their children and those far away—everyone whom the Lord calls. The gift of the Spirit belongs to the new covenant people of God. We do not earn him by reaching a higher spiritual level; we receive because Jesus has been exalted and pours out the Father’s promise.

Receiving and continuing

Acts describes people receiving the Spirit in several settings. Sometimes the Spirit came while the gospel was being preached; sometimes believers prayed and laid hands on people. Tongues, prophecy, praise and courageous witness followed. The variety keeps us from turning one story into a rigid technique, while the repeated pattern encourages us to expect a recognisable encounter with God. We should neither explain away the experience nor manufacture it.

Jesus uses the picture of drinking. Thirst awakens desire, coming directs us to Jesus, and drinking describes an active response of faith. We open ourselves to God through prayer, thanksgiving, worship and surrendered speech. The Spirit supplies the life; we receive it. Laying on of hands can express fellowship and impart blessing, but the person praying has no control over the Spirit. Jesus remains the giver.

The baptism in the Spirit begins a life of fresh filling. Ephesians 5 connects this continuing fullness with worship, gratitude and relationships shaped by Christ. Yesterday’s experience cannot replace today’s dependence. We return to the fountain, not because the Spirit repeatedly abandons us, but because every new day, task and trial calls for renewed surrender. As we drink, his love and joy increasingly become part of our character and his power becomes available for service.

When nothing dramatic seems to happen

Some receive with strong emotion, while others notice little at first. Do not measure the Father’s gift by bodily sensation. Thank him, continue to worship and give the Spirit room. A seed may be real before its growth is visible. Ask trusted believers to pray again when needed, but do not live under the accusation that you failed a technique.

Fullness is recognised over time in praise, courage, love and increasing freedom to serve. Speaking in tongues may become an important help in prayer, yet it is not a trophy or a reason to judge another believer. Receive every gift gratefully, practise it faithfully and keep the giver at the centre.

Reflect

  1. What makes receiving easy or difficult for you?
  2. Which area of life needs fresh surrender?

Together

Ask permission, lay a hand gently on a shoulder if welcomed, and pray simply for a fresh filling. Do not coach a reaction.

Live it out

Make room for worship, gratitude and quiet listening on three days this week.

Ask about being filled ↗
03

Help for ordinary days

Walk with the Spirit every day

Big idea: The Spirit leads us in ordinary decisions and forms the character of Jesus in us. Guidance and fruit belong together.

A conversation for reflection

Erling: People often look for spectacular guidance.

Solveig: But much of the Spirit’s work is quiet—patience in the kitchen, truthfulness at work, love in a difficult conversation.

Erling: Exactly. Power without Christlike character misses God’s purpose.

Read

John 10:1–5, 27 · John 16:12–15 · Romans 8:14, 26–27 · Galatians 5:16–25

The Spirit reminds us of Jesus’ words, brings conviction, helps in weakness and leads God’s children. We learn his ways through Scripture, prayer and repeated obedience. A thought may feel strong without being God’s voice, so guidance should mature in humility: ask whether it agrees with Scripture, reflects Jesus and produces good fruit.

The fruit of the Spirit is not less supernatural than the gifts. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control show who is shaping us. The Spirit may interrupt our plan to help a person, prompt an apology or give courage to speak. Small obediences train our attention for larger assignments.

The Helper beside us and within us

Jesus called the Spirit the Helper—one who comes alongside to strengthen, counsel and represent him. He promised not to leave his disciples as orphans. The Spirit’s presence means that a believer is never abandoned, even when God feels distant. He lives in us, reminds us of Jesus’ words and gives an inner awareness that we belong to the Father. This is the foundation of daily guidance: not anxiety about finding hidden messages, but friendship with God.

The Spirit helps in weakness, including when we do not know how to pray. He may bring a Scripture to mind, awaken concern for a person or restrain us from a careless decision. Sometimes guidance arrives as quiet peace; at other times as persistent unease, wise counsel or circumstances that close one way and open another. No single feeling is infallible. We learn the Shepherd’s voice over time by remaining close to Jesus.

Led into freedom and likeness to Christ

To be led by the Spirit is not to become passive or irresponsible. The Spirit renews our minds and trains our choices. He leads us away from the works of the flesh—self-centred desires that damage us and others—and into the freedom of love. A claimed prompting that excuses dishonesty, impurity, pride or broken promises is not spiritual guidance, however powerful it feels.

Fruit grows rather than appearing fully formed in a moment. Love develops as we choose another person’s good; patience grows when we remain gracious under strain; self-control becomes visible when desire no longer rules us. The Spirit produces this life, but we participate by saying no to the old ways and yes to his prompting. Gifts may attract attention, but fruit gives a gift credibility and makes its service safe.

Begin with the next act of obedience already before you. The Spirit’s leading is often wonderfully ordinary: speak truth, forgive, listen, give, rest, apologise, pray or offer help. When we respond to these quiet promptings, our spiritual senses become trained. Daily life becomes the place where communion with God takes flesh and the character of Jesus is formed in us.

Learning through response

Guidance often becomes clearer after we take a small, reversible step. We can send an encouraging message, ask whether someone would welcome prayer or discuss a concern with a mature friend. This is different from making a dramatic decision on a private impression. Faithfulness grows when courage is joined to wisdom.

Keep a simple record of promptings and outcomes. Over time you may notice where you hear clearly, where desire colours your judgment and how God confirms his leading. The aim is not constant inward analysis, but an increasingly natural responsiveness to the Spirit while our attention remains on Jesus and the people before us.

Reflect

  1. Which fruit is the Spirit developing in you?
  2. When have you recognised a quiet prompting to do good?

Together

Take five minutes of silence. Share only impressions that encourage a practical act of love; hold them humbly.

Live it out

Keep a seven-day journal: Scripture, possible prompting, action and fruit. Review it prayerfully.

Ask about daily guidance ↗
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A people who hear

Recognise God’s voice

Big idea: God speaks first and most reliably through Scripture. The Spirit may also use impressions, visions and dreams, but every claimed revelation remains under the authority of the Bible and must be tested.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: How do we avoid calling every thought a word from God?

Erling: By knowing Scripture, staying teachable and letting others test what we believe we heard.

Solveig: A dream may invite prayer, but it does not create new doctrine.

Erling: Precisely. The Spirit who inspired Scripture does not contradict it.

Read

2 Timothy 3:14–17 · Joel 2:28–29 · Acts 10:9–20 · Acts 16:6–10 · 1 Thessalonians 5:19–22

The Bible is God-breathed and equips us for every good work. As its story and language fill us, it renews imagination and helps us recognise the Shepherd’s character. A verse should be read in context, not used as a private code detached from what the biblical author meant.

In Acts, God used visions and other promptings to guide mission. Such experiences may draw attention to a person or situation, but interpretation requires patience. Write the impression down, pray, compare it with Scripture and invite mature believers to weigh it. Never use “God told me” to control another person, demand money, force a relationship or replace medical, legal or safeguarding wisdom.

God has spoken—and still speaks

The God of the Bible is not silent. He spoke creation into being, called Abraham, addressed Israel through the prophets and has spoken decisively in his Son. Jesus is the fullest revelation of the Father. The Spirit does not compete with him or bring a different gospel; he takes what belongs to Jesus and makes it known. Every form of guidance must therefore be judged by the character, teaching, death and resurrection of Christ.

Scripture holds a unique place because it is God-breathed and given to teach, correct and equip the whole church. The Spirit illuminates the written word, helping us see its meaning and respond. A sentence that suddenly becomes personal may indeed be used by God, but it still belongs to a book, argument and biblical story. Careful reading protects us from making the Bible say whatever our present desire wants to hear.

Visions and dreams need interpretation

Joel promised that the outpouring of the Spirit would include prophecy, dreams and visions. In Acts, Peter’s vision prepared him to enter a Gentile home, while Paul’s night vision helped his team recognise a call towards Macedonia. In both stories, the experience served God’s saving mission and required a response. The image itself was not the whole message; its meaning became clearer through prayer, events and fellowship with others.

Dreams also arise from ordinary memories, fears and bodily conditions. A vivid dream is not automatically revelation. Ask what it draws your attention towards and whether it leads to prayer, faith and obedience. Avoid building doctrine or making major decisions from a symbol whose meaning is uncertain. God is able to confirm what he truly says without our manipulation.

Hearing grows in a community that welcomes the Spirit and welcomes testing. We can say, “I believe this may be from the Lord,” rather than claiming certainty we do not possess. Write impressions accurately, distinguish what was received from your interpretation, and remain willing to be wrong. Humility does not weaken revelation; it gives the church room to recognise and obey what is truly from God.

The voice and character of the Shepherd

Jesus says his sheep know his voice because they know him. Recognition is relational before it is technical. The more the Gospels shape our picture of Jesus, the more readily we recognise guidance that carries his truth, holiness and compassion. A voice that flatters our pride or drives us by panic deserves careful suspicion.

God may speak firmly, but conviction is different from hopeless condemnation. The Spirit exposes sin in order to bring us into light, repentance and restoration. His voice gives a truthful way forward. Even when the next step costs us, it draws us towards Jesus and the freedom of obedience rather than into secrecy and bondage.

Reflect

  1. How does Scripture train you to hear?
  2. What safeguards help you interpret an impression?

Together

Study Acts 16:6–10. List what the team knew, what they inferred and how they acted together.

Live it out

Bring one possible guidance to Scripture, prayer and a trusted mature believer before acting.

Ask about hearing God ↗
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Grace for the common good

Discover the Spirit’s gifts

Big idea: Spiritual gifts are expressions of grace given by the one Spirit so that ordinary believers can build up others—in gathered worship and everyday life.

A conversation for reflection

Erling: A gift is not a badge proving that I am spiritual.

Solveig: It is grace entrusted to me for somebody else.

Erling: That changes the question from “What makes me important?” to “Who can I serve?”

Read

Romans 12:3–8 · 1 Corinthians 12:4–27 · 1 Corinthians 14:26 · 1 Peter 4:10–11

There are different gifts, services and activities, but the same triune God works through them all. No believer has every gift, and no believer is unnecessary. Gifts operate through a body whose members depend on one another. Love is the indispensable setting; without it even impressive manifestations become empty noise.

The Spirit’s gifts are not confined to a platform or meeting. Wisdom may help a family, faith may strengthen a discouraged colleague, healing prayer may happen at a kitchen table and prophecy may quietly encourage a friend. We discover gifts by serving, receiving feedback and observing lasting fruit—not by adopting a title.

Different expressions of the same grace

The New Testament gives several lists of gifts, and the lists are not identical. This suggests abundance rather than a closed catalogue. Some gifts appear strikingly supernatural; others look like familiar abilities made fruitful by grace. Teaching, mercy, generosity, leadership, service, healing and prophecy all come under the lordship of Jesus. The important question is not which category a gift belongs to, but whether God is glorified and people are strengthened.

Paul speaks of the manifestation of the Spirit. The invisible Spirit makes his presence perceptible through a believer’s contribution. A message, act of mercy or healing prayer becomes a small window through which another person receives God’s help. The gift is entrusted to us, yet remains his activity. This keeps us both expectant and humble: we prepare and participate, but the result is God’s.

Every member contributes

The picture of the body challenges both inferiority and independence. The eye cannot dismiss the hand, and the head cannot tell the feet they are unnecessary. Likewise, a public speaker cannot despise quiet service, and someone with a less visible gift need not withdraw. The Spirit distributes as he chooses so that we need one another. Maturity is not doing everything ourselves, but giving and receiving within the body.

When believers gather, each may bring something: a song, teaching, revelation, tongue or interpretation. “Each” does not mean disorder or that everyone must speak in every meeting. It means participation is not restricted to a professional few. Leaders create room, guard the purpose of building up and help people grow through encouragement and correction.

Gifts are discovered on the road of service. Notice the needs that repeatedly move your heart, the grace that comes when you act and the fruit others recognise. Try small assignments. Ask for honest feedback. Do not confuse desire for visibility with calling, and do not bury a grace because it feels ordinary. Whatever gift you have received, use it as a steward of God’s many-sided grace.

Love gives the gifts their direction

First Corinthians places the great chapter on love between teaching about gifts and their practice in the gathering. This is not an interruption. Love is the more excellent way in which every gift must operate. It makes us patient with learners, glad when another person succeeds and willing to remain unseen when that best serves the body.

A gift may be genuine while its use is immature. The answer is neither uncritical applause nor immediate rejection, but discipleship. Good leaders help people recognise grace, strengthen character and grow in timing. In this environment mistakes can be corrected without shame, and spiritual contributions increasingly bring honour to Jesus.

Reflect

  1. Who benefits when you serve at your best?
  2. Which gifts do others recognise in you?

Together

Name grace you see in each person. Make the affirmations concrete and avoid flattering titles.

Live it out

Choose one need and serve this week. Afterwards ask what brought help, clarity or encouragement.

Ask about spiritual gifts ↗
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Seeing a situation with God’s help

Wisdom, knowledge and discernment

Big idea: The Spirit may give timely insight, wise direction or discernment of spiritual influence. These gifts serve people best when offered humbly and tested carefully.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: Insight into another person’s life is sensitive.

Erling: Therefore we share only what serves them, without exposing or impressing.

Solveig: And discernment is not suspicion?

Erling: No. It recognises what is from God, merely human or destructive, while remaining rooted in love.

Read

1 Corinthians 12:8, 10 · Acts 5:1–11 · Acts 9:10–19 · Acts 16:16–18 · James 3:13–18

A message of wisdom applies God’s perspective to a particular need; a message of knowledge brings information the person could not naturally know; discerning spirits helps identify the spiritual source at work. Scripture gives examples, but not formulas. Natural observation, experience and professional knowledge remain valuable and should not be falsely labelled supernatural.

Offer an impression as something to weigh: “I may be wrong, but could this mean anything to you?” Protect confidentiality and dignity. Do not diagnose demons, sin, illness or trauma from an impression. Where abuse, illness or danger is involved, spiritual care should work alongside appropriate professional and safeguarding help.

A message for a particular moment

A message of wisdom is more than general intelligence. The Spirit may show how God’s truth applies in a complex moment, opening a way that neither argument nor experience had uncovered. A message of knowledge brings a fact or insight that the speaker did not arrive at naturally. Both gifts are fragments of grace, not permanent omniscience. The person remains human and must resist adding guesses to what was given.

Ananias received specific knowledge about Saul and was sent to pray for him. The revelation required courage, yet Ananias also spoke honestly with the Lord about his fear. God answered and gave further understanding. This shows a living conversation: revelation does not cancel thought or questions. It draws the servant into obedient cooperation.

Discernment without suspicion

Discerning spirits helps the church recognise the source and nature of a spiritual manifestation. In Philippi, the slave girl’s words about Paul sounded correct, yet the spirit enslaving her was not holy. Paul did not react instantly; after some time he acted in Jesus’ authority and she was set free. True discernment looks beyond accurate words to the spiritual reality and fruit.

This gift must not become a religious name for mistrust. Human personality, mental illness, trauma and cultural difference should not be casually labelled demonic. Jesus treated people with dignity and used authority to liberate, not to make frightened followers dependent on a minister. Discernment is healthiest among believers whose character, observations and conclusions can be tested.

These gifts find their purpose in love. Knowledge that exposes someone publicly may wound rather than heal. Wisdom asks not only, “What do I know?” but “What should be shared, with whom, and when?” Sometimes the most spiritual response is to pray silently, ask a gentle question or pass information to an appropriate leader. The Spirit’s insight carries the Spirit’s respect for the person.

From revelation to helpful service

Suppose a name or picture comes to mind while you pray. Do not rush to construct a story around it. Ask the Lord what response he desires. The impression may simply be an invitation to pray. If you speak, separate the small thing you received from your possible interpretation and allow the person to say that it means nothing.

When an insight proves accurate, gratitude belongs to God. Accuracy is not permission to advise on every area of life or to make the person dependent on you. A mature servant helps people meet Jesus, take responsible steps and remain connected to healthy community. The gift has succeeded when it serves freedom and faithful obedience.

Reflect

  1. How does wisdom from above differ from ambition?
  2. What language keeps spiritual insight humble?

Together

Pray for one another. Share only brief encouragement, then let the receiver and group weigh it without pressure.

Live it out

Practise asking good questions before offering advice. Notice whether insight produces peace and useful action.

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God acts with compassion and power

Faith, healings and miracles

Big idea: The Spirit gives special faith, gifts of healing and miraculous works as signs of God’s compassionate kingdom. We pray boldly while refusing exaggeration, blame or false promises.

A conversation for reflection

Erling: When we pray for healing, our confidence is in God’s goodness, not in our technique.

Solveig: And if healing is not visible, we do not accuse the sick person of lacking faith.

Erling: We keep loving, praying and helping. Compassion does not end when a meeting ends.

Read

1 Corinthians 12:9–10 · Acts 3:1–16 · Acts 4:29–31 · James 5:13–16

Special faith is a Spirit-given certainty for a particular situation. Gifts of healing and miracles reveal that the risen Jesus is at work and anticipate the full restoration of creation. The plural language of “gifts of healings” reminds us that God works in varied ways and through many people. Prayer and medical care need not compete; all truth, skill and healing ultimately belong to God.

Ask what the person wants prayer for and obtain consent before touching. Pray simply in Jesus’ name, listen and ask what has changed. Never instruct anyone to stop medication or avoid qualified care. Do not claim a healing that has not been confirmed. Whether change is immediate, gradual or not yet seen, preserve the person’s dignity and continue practical support.

Signs of the kingdom

Jesus proclaimed the kingdom and healed the sick. His works of power were not entertainment; they were signs that God’s compassionate reign had come near. The apostles continued in his name, as when the man unable to walk was raised at the temple gate. The miracle opened a door for witness, but Peter immediately refused personal glory: it was faith in Jesus’ name, not the apostles’ power or holiness, that had strengthened the man.

The gift of faith is a special confidence given for a particular need. It differs from the faith by which every Christian trusts Christ. At times the Spirit gives an unusual certainty that God will intervene, enabling someone to speak or act with courage beyond ordinary confidence. Such faith cannot be produced by excitement, nor should a person claim certainty merely to appear bold.

Compassion that remains truthful

Paul uses plural language—gifts of healings—which leaves room for many kinds of healing and many servants. Some changes are immediate, others gradual. God may work through prayer, the care of the community and medical skill. We should rejoice in every genuine improvement without turning testimony into exaggeration. When possible, significant physical claims should be confirmed.

Unanswered prayer can be painful. Scripture does not permit us to place the burden on the suffering person by declaring that they lacked faith. Even faithful servants knew weakness, illness and delayed answers. We continue to ask while also lamenting, caring and holding the person in hope. The full healing of creation awaits resurrection, yet that future hope gives us courage to pray for signs of it now.

Good practice makes compassion concrete. Ask permission, listen carefully and keep prayer simple. Do not push, shout at the person or turn their body into a demonstration. If nothing changes, say so honestly and keep loving. Spiritual power is seen not only when pain leaves, but also when the church carries burdens faithfully and refuses to abandon those who still suffer.

Praying with faith and listening love

Jesus sometimes asked people what they wanted, even when their need appeared obvious. The question gave them dignity and allowed desire to be voiced. We can do the same. Listen before praying, ask for a clear description and agree on what may be shared. Prayer ministry is an encounter with a person, not a contest with a symptom.

After prayer, invite honest feedback without suggesting the desired answer. If there is change, thank God and pray again if the person wishes. If there is none, do not create an explanation. The same person may need friendship, practical help and repeated prayer long after the moment has passed. Love is the atmosphere in which faith can remain bold and truthful.

Reflect

  1. What do Jesus’ healings reveal about his kingdom?
  2. How can boldness and honesty remain together?

Together

With permission, pray briefly for a real need. Ask afterwards what the person experienced; report only what is known.

Live it out

Offer both prayer and one concrete act of care to somebody who is unwell or burdened.

Ask about healing and miracles ↗
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Prayer beyond our understanding

Tongues and interpretation

Big idea: Speaking in tongues can strengthen personal prayer; with interpretation it can also build up the gathered church. Paul welcomes the gift and gives it loving order.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: Why does Paul both encourage tongues and limit its public use?

Erling: Because love seeks the good of others. Personal prayer may be free, while public ministry must be understandable.

Solveig: So order does not quench the Spirit?

Erling: God’s order makes room for more people to participate safely.

Read

Acts 2:1–11 · 1 Corinthians 12:10 · 1 Corinthians 14:1–19, 26–28, 39–40 · Romans 8:26–27

In tongues, a believer speaks to God in language not learned by natural means. It may express prayer, praise and thanksgiving when ordinary words are insufficient. Interpretation is not necessarily a word-for-word translation; it communicates the meaning so the church can receive encouragement. Neither gift makes a person superior.

Paul prefers intelligible words in the gathering because others must be built up. Public tongues should therefore be accompanied by interpretation; otherwise the speaker prays quietly. Contributions should be limited, weighed and offered under responsible leadership. This is not fear of the Spirit but love expressed through clarity and peace.

Speaking mysteries to God

At Pentecost, the disciples spoke languages they had not learned and visitors heard God’s mighty works in their own tongues. In Corinth, Paul also describes speech that no person understands and that addresses God in the Spirit. These passages show that tongues may sometimes be recognised human languages and at other times prayer beyond the speaker’s understanding. In both cases the Spirit enables human voices to praise God.

Personal prayer in tongues strengthens the one who prays. It allows our spirit to participate when the mind has run out of words. Erling describes praying much in tongues when alone; after a time, prayers in ordinary language are often born within him with fresh clarity and faith. The gift does not replace thoughtful prayer or Scripture. It works alongside them and can help us remain attentive to God.

Understanding in the gathered church

A public tongue functions differently because the whole gathering must benefit. Interpretation communicates its meaning so that others can say amen and receive encouragement. It may come to the speaker or another believer. Like prophecy, it should be offered in an orderly way and weighed. If no interpretation comes, the tongue may remain a quiet prayer between the believer and God.

Paul refuses two opposite errors. He will not forbid tongues, but he will not allow freedom to become confusion. He values five understandable words that teach others more than thousands they cannot understand. Love asks what builds up the people present, including newcomers who may otherwise think the gathering has lost its senses.

No one should be pressured to imitate sounds or use tongues as proof of superior spirituality. At the same time, fear or misuse elsewhere need not make us despise a gift Scripture welcomes. We can ask, receive and practise privately, while learning responsible public use among mature believers. Spiritual freedom and peaceful order are friends.

Giving voice to the Spirit’s enabling

At Pentecost the disciples spoke as the Spirit enabled them. The Spirit gave, and they spoke. This cooperation helps us understand why receiving need not feel as though an external power takes control of the mouth. A believer yields the voice in faith while remaining conscious and responsible. The gift can be stopped and started; self-control is not absent.

Interpretation requires the same dependence. A phrase, picture or sense of meaning may arise as the tongue is given. Share it without embellishment and allow others to weigh it. The result should turn attention towards God and build up his people, not create fascination with the person through whom the gift came.

Reflect

  1. How does love guide the use of vocal gifts?
  2. What is the difference between private prayer and a public contribution?

Together

Read 1 Corinthians 14 aloud and write a short list of Paul’s encouragements and boundaries.

Live it out

In private prayer, offer God your voice without striving. In public, follow the discernment and order of the gathered church.

Ask about tongues ↗
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Strengthening, encouraging and comforting

Desire to prophesy

Big idea: New Testament prophecy is a Spirit-prompted message that helps people encounter God and builds up the church. All believers may learn to participate, but every message remains partial and testable.

A conversation for reflection

Erling: Paul tells the whole church to pursue love and eagerly desire prophecy.

Solveig: Then the purpose is not to predict impressive events.

Erling: The ordinary purpose is to strengthen, encourage and comfort—and sometimes expose a heart so a person turns to God.

Read

Acts 2:17–18 · Acts 21:8–11 · 1 Corinthians 13:8–12 · 1 Corinthians 14:1–5, 24–25

Prophecy begins with love and attentiveness. A message may come as a word, Scripture, inner picture, burden, dream or clear conviction. Receiving something is only the beginning; we must also interpret and communicate it. Human understanding is partial, so even a genuine prompting can be expressed imperfectly.

The gift does not automatically make somebody a prophet, nor does prophecy add to Scripture. We learn by practising in accountable community. Begin with simple encouragement rather than directional predictions. Avoid dates, marriages, relocations, money decisions or claims about pregnancy and death. Such matters require much stronger discernment and responsible pastoral oversight.

God shares his heart

Prophecy is not mainly fortune-telling. In the new covenant, its ordinary purpose is to strengthen, encourage and comfort. The Spirit may bring a word that reminds someone of God’s faithfulness, exposes a hidden need with mercy or calls the church back to its mission. When an unbeliever recognises that the secrets of the heart are known, the desired response is worship: “God is really among you.”

At Pentecost, Peter announced that sons and daughters would prophesy. Paul likewise tells the whole congregation to pursue love and eagerly desire spiritual gifts, especially prophecy. This broad participation does not abolish recognised prophetic ministry, but it means ordinary believers can learn to hear and share. The gift is grace, not a reward for a spiritual elite.

Receiving, interpreting and communicating

A prophetic message often develops through three stages. First comes an impression: perhaps a phrase, picture, Scripture, burden or inner knowing. Then we ask what it means. Finally we consider how and when it should be shared. We can receive something truly and still interpret it poorly or communicate it clumsily. Recognising these stages helps us remain humble and learn from correction.

We prophesy in part. No present message carries the completeness or authority of Scripture, and no speaker sees the whole picture. That is why others weigh what is said and why a prophecy should point people towards Jesus rather than bind them to the prophet. A genuine gift welcomes community; it does not demand immunity from questions.

The safest place to begin is with the clear New Testament purpose. Listen for something that strengthens faith, encourages obedience or brings comfort. Share briefly and without drama, then stop. Growth comes through repeated, accountable practice. The aim is not to produce impressive meetings, but to help people experience the nearness and loving attention of God.

Making room without manufacturing words

A group can learn by becoming quiet before God, worshipping Jesus and asking the Spirit for something that will serve another person. Silence is not failure. We do not have to fill the space. If an impression comes, hold it prayerfully; if nothing comes, we remain loved and can still encourage from Scripture.

Feedback helps learning. The receiver may say what resonated, what remains unclear and what did not fit. This is not grading spiritual performance. It teaches us to distinguish revelation from association and to communicate more faithfully. A community that combines permission to try with freedom to test can grow in both courage and maturity.

Reflect

  1. How does love change your motive for prophecy?
  2. Which part—receiving, interpreting or sharing—needs growth?

Together

Pray quietly, then offer one short Scripture-shaped encouragement. Let two or three others weigh it.

Live it out

Encourage one person in plain language this week. Do not use prophetic language unless it genuinely helps them test it.

Ask about prophecy ↗
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A human voice serving a divine purpose

Share what you receive with humility

Big idea: A prophetic impression should be communicated clearly, gently and without control. The speaker remains responsible for timing, tone and words.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: Sometimes dramatic language makes a weak impression sound certain.

Erling: Humility is more truthful. “I believe the Lord may be saying” leaves room for testing.

Solveig: And a right message can still be delivered at the wrong time.

Erling: Yes. The spirit of the prophet is subject to the prophet.

Read

Jeremiah 1:4–10 · 1 Corinthians 14:3, 26–33 · Colossians 4:6 · 1 Peter 4:10–11

Ask who the message is for, what its central meaning is and whether now is the right time. Use ordinary language and avoid adding explanations that God has not given. A leader may ask you to wait, shorten the contribution or share it privately. Submission to wise order is part of spiritual maturity, not a rejection of the gift.

Prophecy should reflect the character of Jesus. It may correct, but never humiliate or threaten. Personal and sensitive material belongs in a safe setting with accountable leaders, not on a public platform. The receiver is free to weigh the message; the speaker must not chase agreement or claim unquestionable authority.

Faithful to what was given

When Jeremiah felt too young and inadequate, God touched his mouth and promised to give him words. Yet a divine message still passed through Jeremiah’s language, personality and historical setting. The same humility is needed today. We are responsible to distinguish the impression itself from the explanations we attach to it. Adding detail can make a message sound richer while actually making it less faithful.

Write the central thought in one sentence before speaking. Ask whether the message belongs to the whole gathering, a smaller group or one person. Consider whether it needs immediate expression or patient prayer. A burden from God does not remove self-control; Paul says the spirits of prophets are subject to prophets. We can wait without losing what the Spirit has given.

Authority that serves rather than controls

Phrases such as “Thus says the Lord” can make human wording sound beyond question. In a setting where prophecy is partial and tested, humbler language is often more honest: “I believe the Lord may be drawing attention to this.” Confidence may grow as a message is confirmed, but the hearer’s freedom and the community’s responsibility remain.

Correction must carry the redemptive purpose of Jesus. Public shame, threats and accusations are not signs of prophetic courage. Sensitive matters should be brought to responsible leaders who can protect everyone involved and respond wisely. A prophecy must never be used to begin or end a marriage, demand loyalty, obtain money or silence a report of abuse.

After sharing, release the message. Do not explain repeatedly, campaign for fulfilment or become offended if it is set aside. If your words were unclear or wrong, apologise plainly and learn. A trustworthy prophetic culture grows where people are encouraged to step out, protected from humiliation and also expected to take responsibility for what they say.

Tone is part of the message

God’s heart may be misrepresented by an aggressive delivery even when some content is correct. Jesus could speak with great authority while receiving the wounded with gentleness. The prophetic servant therefore attends to facial expression, volume, timing and the hearer’s situation. Truth and grace must not be separated.

Public words should normally be concise enough for others to remember and weigh. Long explanations often mix revelation with teaching and personal opinion. Say what you believe was given, then let leaders guide the response. Restraint is not lack of anointing; it can be evidence that love governs the gift.

Reflect

  1. What makes communication safe and clear?
  2. How do you respond when a leader asks you to wait?

Together

Practise turning a vague or dramatic statement into brief, humble and testable language.

Live it out

Before sharing an impression, ask: Is it biblical? Is it loving? Is it mine to share? Is this the right time?

Ask about sharing prophecy ↗
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Do not despise; do not be gullible

Test everything

Big idea: Biblical testing protects both openness and truth. We examine the messenger’s fruit, the message’s content, its spiritual source and its fulfilment—together.

A conversation for reflection

Erling: Paul places two commands side by side: do not despise prophecy, and test everything.

Solveig: Discernment is therefore neither cynicism nor gullibility.

Erling: It is a community responsibility. The person who speaks is also willing to be corrected.

Read

Deuteronomy 13:1–5 · Deuteronomy 18:20–22 · Matthew 7:15–20 · 1 Corinthians 14:29 · 1 John 4:1–3 · 1 Thessalonians 5:19–22

First ask whether the message agrees with Scripture and confesses Jesus faithfully. Does it produce love, freedom, holiness and good fruit, or fear, pride, greed and dependence on the messenger? Character matters: gifted speech does not excuse manipulation, sexual misconduct, financial secrecy or refusal of correction.

Predictions can be checked by fulfilment, but even a sign is not permission to follow teaching that turns people away from God. Some words are conditional and may require patient interpretation; that is why one person should not judge alone. Record significant words accurately, invite mature leaders and affected people to weigh them, and admit plainly when something was wrong.

Testing honours the Spirit

Some fear that testing a prophecy shows unbelief. Paul teaches the opposite: the same apostle who says not to quench the Spirit also commands the church to test everything. Discernment protects the freedom of the Spirit from human confusion and protects people from spiritual manipulation. We honour God’s voice by refusing to attribute careless words to him.

The first test is Christ and Scripture. Does the message agree with the apostolic gospel and lead people into faithful worship of the triune God? A spectacular sign cannot make false teaching true. The Spirit of truth glorifies Jesus and does not contradict the written word he inspired. Biblical testing considers the whole counsel of Scripture, not an isolated verse used to defend a desired conclusion.

Message, messenger, spirit and fruit

Jesus tells us to recognise prophets by their fruit. Fruit includes character, truthfulness, love, sexual integrity, handling of money and power, treatment of vulnerable people and willingness to receive correction. Popularity, crowds and miracles are not sufficient tests. A gifted person may still have serious weaknesses; persistent bad fruit must never be excused because the gift appears powerful.

We also examine the message itself. Is it clear enough to test? Did any prediction happen? Were conditions stated, or added only after failure? Does the word confirm God’s work or create fear and unhealthy dependence on the speaker? Distinguishing the exact message from later interpretation prevents memory from quietly rewriting what was said.

Testing belongs to the gathered church. Two or three may speak while the others weigh. Different people notice different aspects: biblical consistency, pastoral impact, factual accuracy and spiritual tone. The final response need not always be simply true or false; a word may contain a genuine insight mixed with human assumption. Keep what is good, set aside what is not, and remain both open and free.

When a prophecy proves wrong

A failed word should not be rescued by changing its meaning after the event. Honest acknowledgement protects the church and helps the speaker mature. Depending on the harm caused, a private apology may be enough, or public correction may be required. Forgiveness does not remove the need to rebuild trust and strengthen accountability.

Repeated serious errors, controlling behaviour or refusal of correction require leaders to limit a person’s public ministry. This is not quenching the Spirit. It is shepherding the flock. Restoration may be possible through repentance, time and proven fruit, but protecting people must take priority over preserving someone’s platform.

Reflect

  1. Which biblical tests are most often neglected?
  2. How can correction become a gift rather than a humiliation?

Together

Create a written testing checklist: Scripture, Jesus, fruit, character, community, facts and fulfilment.

Live it out

Review one message that has influenced you. Separate its exact words from later memories and interpretations.

Ask about testing prophecy ↗
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Filled, formed and used

Receive the word and walk it out

Big idea: A tested word is not a shortcut around discipleship. We treasure it, pray, wait for confirmation and take faithful steps as members of one Spirit-filled body.

A conversation for reflection

Solveig: A true word can tempt us to hurry ahead of God.

Erling: Mary treasured what she received. Abraham learned painfully that promise is not fulfilled by human striving.

Solveig: So we neither forget the word nor force it.

Erling: We pray, grow, work and move when God opens the way.

Read

Luke 2:19, 25–38 · 1 Timothy 1:18–19 · 1 Timothy 4:14–16 · 1 Corinthians 13:8–12 · Ephesians 4:11–16

Write down a significant word and hide it in your heart. Ask what it reveals about God, what response Scripture already requires and what must simply be awaited. Look for the inner witness of the Spirit, confirmation through Scripture, circumstances and trusted believers. Personal prophecy often includes conditions such as perseverance, character formation and cooperation with God.

Prophecy is partial; later understanding may bring greater clarity. We act responsibly rather than passively, but never use a word to bypass preparation or accountability. The goal of all the gifts is a mature people who resemble Christ. We were baptised by one Spirit into one body and all drink from the same Spirit. Keep receiving, keep practising love and let every gift serve God’s mission through his people.

Treasure without forcing

Mary treasured the words surrounding Jesus’ birth and pondered them in her heart. Simeon and Anna waited faithfully for what God had promised. Their examples show that receiving a word may begin a long process. We do not have to make every promise happen immediately. We hold it before God, allow it to shape prayer and remain attentive to his timing.

A tested prophecy may reveal God’s purpose, but fulfilment often involves formation. Timothy was told not to neglect the gift recognised through prophecy and laying on of hands. He was also instructed to devote himself to Scripture, teaching, conduct and perseverance. The word did not replace disciplined growth; it called him into it. Promise and responsibility worked together.

Work with the word in community

Write down important words, including their date and setting. Pray through the exact content rather than an enlarged memory of it. Ask what is already clear from Scripture, what needs confirmation and what requires waiting. Share it with people who know both God and your life. Inner witness, wise counsel, circumstances and growing fruit may gradually bring clarity.

Some prophecies are conditional. God’s invitation may require repentance, courage, preparation or perseverance. Yet effort must not become striving. Abraham’s attempt to secure the promise by human means brought pain. A genuine word will never justify dishonesty, presumption or bypassing people to whom we are rightly accountable.

The course ends where it began: with a people drinking from one Spirit. Gifts do not create independent spiritual stars. They equip members of one body to serve, mature and make Jesus known together. Continue in the same path—thirsty for God, rooted in Scripture, responsive to the Spirit, rich in love and ready to let every word and gift be tested for the common good.

A lifelong school of the Spirit

No course can make us finished experts in the ways of God. We remain disciples—learners who receive grace, make mistakes, accept correction and grow. The Spirit’s school is daily life in the body of Christ. Here gifts are joined to character, revelation to Scripture, courage to humility and personal calling to shared mission.

Choose a rhythm that can continue: time in Scripture, unhurried prayer, fellowship with people who know you, practical service and opportunities to practise the gifts. Review what bears good fruit. Keep asking the Father for fresh filling. The mature Spirit-filled life is not a restless search for novelty, but an ever-deepening participation in the love and mission of the triune God.

Reflect

  1. What tested word or calling should you treasure and pray over?
  2. What is your next faithful—not forced—step?

Together

Review the course. Each person names one gift to practise, one safeguard to keep and one way to serve the body.

Live it out

Make a 30-day plan for Scripture, prayer, character, accountable practice and service. Review it with a trusted person.

Continue in the same path

Filled, formed and sent together

You have reached the end of the course, but life in the Spirit is never a finished subject. Remain thirsty for God, rooted in Scripture, eager to serve and willing to be tested. The Spirit forms a people—not isolated spiritual performers—who make Jesus visible in the world.

Course source: Åndens folk – Åndens gaver, Erling Thu (2023). Adapted for the Academy. The conversations are teaching dialogues created for this course, not transcripts. Spiritual ministry should honour consent, safeguarding, responsible church leadership and appropriate professional care.